What am I allowed to ask for?
When I was young, I learned REAL QUICKLY what to ask for and what NOT to ask for. I do not like confrontation, never have... so it there is an option that is "less stressful" or "less contrary", I would take it! And still do...
But, is this always the best route?
I know, sometimes you gotta speak up for yourself, right? Other times, I think I let myself become like a wimp.... or do I?
Jesus, the King of Kings, when confronted with a cruel, judgmental attitude, just stayed calm and only defended himself in a quiet, meek manner! He KNEW who he was! He was confident and secure in himself. [Reference: Isaiah 53:7, Acts 8:32]
Is that why we are not strong at times.... because we are not confident in ourselves? We are wishy-washy or indecisive because we don't know our own mind?
Ought Oh! We are getting on deep territory now!
Jesus speaks so clearly about asking and receiving-
Matthew 7:7-11 (King James Version)
7Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you:
8For every one that asketh receiveth; and he that seeketh findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be opened.
9Or what man is there of you, whom if his son ask bread, will he give him a stone?
10Or if he ask a fish, will he give him a serpent?
11If ye then, being evil, know how to give good gifts unto your children, how much more shall your Father which is in heaven give good things to them that ask him?
That is God's words... tried, true, tested... bankable!
It's not a myth that we have conjured up... it is fact... TRUTH.
BUT, this is what scares me... in the WORD I can find this...
Luke 18:7-9 (King James Version)
7And shall not God avenge his own elect, which cry day and night unto him, though he bear long with them?
8I tell you that he will avenge them speedily. Nevertheless when the Son of man cometh, shall he find faith on the earth?
It all boils down to the confidence you have in Christ.
Psalm 118:8-9 (King James Version)
8It is better to trust in the LORD than to put confidence in man.
9It is better to trust in the LORD than to put confidence in princes.
1 John 3:19-21 (King James Version)
19And hereby we know that we are of the truth, and shall assure our hearts before him.
20For if our heart condemn us, God is greater than our heart, and knoweth all things.
21Beloved, if our heart condemn us not, then have we confidence toward God.
I used to agonize over 'upsetting God' by asking him things.... then I realized HE AGONIZED TOO! Even though Jesus KNEW the ultimate plan was for him to die on Calvary, he STILL AGONIZED and questioned God all throughout the night...
HE knows ME! HE loves me, HE hears my prayers and petitions... they come from my "needy" heart...
And HE loves to hear from me! My heavenly father is waiting for my call, my request, my plea!
May I not belittle him by ignoring his gentle knocking on my heart's door. HE wants entry.... he is waiting... don't keep him waiting for too long!
Revelation 3:19-21 (King James Version)
19As many as I love, I rebuke and chasten: be zealous therefore, and repent.
20Behold, I stand at the door, and knock: if any man hear my voice, and open the door, I will come in to him, and will sup with him, and he with me.
21To him that overcometh will I grant to sit with me in my throne, even as I also overcame, and am set down with my Father in his throne.
So, what can I ask for? No limits! ... to your heart's content! Go ahead... see what your heavenly father pours out! Need love? Need a job? Need healing? Need uplifting?
You can go BOLDLY before the throne of grace...
Hebrews 4:15-16 (King James Version)
15For we have not an high priest which cannot be touched with the feeling of our infirmities; but was in all points tempted like as we are, yet without sin.
16Let us therefore come boldly unto the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy, and find grace to help in time of need.
No problem... he's got it all ... right there in his hands!
I'm using these scriptures to encourage myself and MOST OF ALL...
Remind myself how big my heavenly father is and just WHO HE IS! WOW!